They Do Exist.


We are in the process of compiling organizations, books, and articles for you on a wide range of topics. Please bear with us as we spend the next few months publishing our ever-growing list! If you have something you would like to recommend that you do not see on this list, please email lauren[at] Thank you!


Books: Sex God by Rob Bell – Sex & The Soul Of A Woman by Paula Rinehart

Street Harassment


Articles: Responding To Harassers

Films: SSH’s Youtube Channel

Porn Addiction – for women

Organizations & Websites: - - - - - The Pink CrossBeggar’s Daughter

Filters & Programs:
X3 Pure – 30 day online program – free Internet filter w/accountability list
Setting Women Free – PureLife’s phone counseling and resources
L.I.F.E Guide For Women

Dirty Girls Come Clean – Crystal Renaud
Every Woman’s Battle – by Shannon Ethridge
Exposed: A Novel – by Ashley Weis
Hooked – by Joe S. McIlhaney Jr., MD
Permission To Speak Freely – Anne Jackson

Blog Posts & News Articles:
Resources for the Mentor
What I Wish I’d Known Before Watching Porn – Women Are Watching It Too – Lauren Dubinsky
The Problem of Pornography – Max Andrew Dubinsky
Online Porn, Cosmopolitan, And Me – Anne Jackson
Porn Zombies – Michael Carpenter, Good Men Project
The Chemicals Behind The Addiction – Fight The New Drug
Female Sexual Addiction Text – Freedom Every Day
America Is Addicted – Sackcloth & Tea
Why Shouldn’t Johnny Watch Porn If He Wants To? – Gary Wilson & Marnia Robinson, Good Men Project
Porn Then & Now: Welcome To Brain Training – Psychology Today
Pornography Is What The End Of The World Looks Like – Robert Jenson, Good Men Project
Giving Up The Gun: A Life Without Pornography – Max Andrew Dubinsky

Bloggers Who Share Their Story:
Jessica Harris
Crystal Renaud – Ex-porn addict
Shelley Lubben – Ex-porn star

Porn Addiction – for the girlfriend/wife

Book: Living With Your Husband’s Secret Wars by Marsha Means

Recovering From Legalism and/or Quiverfull Movement/IBLP/Vision Forum/Politics/Patriarchy

Organizations: RecoveringGrace.comQuiveringDaughters.comTake Heart Project

Books: Raised Right by Alisa Harris – Quivering Daughters by Hillary McFarland – Repenting of Religion by Gregory Boyd – Glorious Ruin by Tullian Tchividjian – The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse by David Johnson

Blog Posts: Princesses, Princes, Daughters & Dads: Against Emotional Incest.

Eating Disorders + Self Harm

Books: Chasing Silhouettes: How To Help A Loved One Battling An Eating Disorder by Emily Wierenga
Video: Everything Beautiful’s TV Show

Depression, Grief + Loss

Longing For Dadding: Healing From The Pain Of An Absent or Emotionally Distant Father by Monique Robinson

The Sex Industry

Statistics on women in the sex industry

23 Responses

  1. Ashley Ramps

    I noticed that you didn't have any content under eating disorders or self harm… I have a ministry called Everything Beautiful that has some resources and info on it. The ministry is all focused on how women and girls see themselves. I would love for you all to post the link if you would like to use it. My email is

    May 24, 2012 at 4:02 pm

    • chasingsilhouettes

      hi ashley, i am the author of a new book called Chasing Silhouettes: How to help a loved one battling an eating disorder ( I would love to connect if possible. (Lauren has added my book to her list of resources too–thank you so much Lauren!). bless you, e.

      October 29, 2012 at 3:08 pm

  2. I read "Every Heart Restored" (A Wife's Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband's Sexual Sin) when I was single with a group of women and still pulled TONS from it. Hurt + sin happens, I'd recommend it to any woman!

    May 24, 2012 at 4:08 pm

  3. Angie

    Hi there, great resources! There is a celebrate recovery group for women that struggle with issues of sexual integrity. We are in Minnesota.

    May 24, 2012 at 4:30 pm

  4. Laura

    When I was recovering from my eating disorder, I found this book ( to be practical, encouraging and extremely helpful.

    May 24, 2012 at 4:30 pm

    • chasingsilhouettes

      Jenni Schaefer is a good friend of mine, Laura, and has been a great encouragement to me. I am a recovered anorexic, and have written a book with my family which just released, called Chasing Silhouettes: How to help a loved one battling an eating disorder ( Bless you, e.

      October 29, 2012 at 3:10 pm

  5. Natalie

    I would love to see more resources & stories about same-sex attraction. Thank you for all you do!!

    June 8, 2012 at 10:48 pm

    • Hey Natalie,

      I've been researching resources on this topic for a while & sadly there are few out there. BUT there are some out there!
      What type of resource are you looking for mainly? Book, sermon, article, blog, etc?
      I might be able to help you find something that's helpful for you.


      July 5, 2012 at 10:11 pm

  6. Hey Lauren & team – here are few resources that I've been compiling.
    Might help, might not.

    July 5, 2012 at 10:10 pm

  7. Ali

    No Stones by Marnie C. Ferree is a phenominal book for recovering sex addicts

    August 30, 2012 at 1:18 pm

  8. Grace for the Good Girl: Letting Go of the Try-Hard Life by Emily P. Freeman for basically ANYONE. Totally changing my life. Basically for anyone who feels/acts like they have to earn grace (which would then make it not grace) or struggles with where the line between "God does the change in you" and "You have to work at it" is.

    Couldn't recommend it highly enough.

    August 30, 2012 at 1:49 pm

  9. AnnieB

    Please please add a section on Sexual Assault and Trauma.

    One excellent book is call Rid of My Disgrace by Justin and Lindsay Holcomb.

    The Resurgence has some good resources too.

    November 27, 2012 at 1:33 am

    • kelseygoestoafrica

      I wholeheartedly agree – that section is needed, and that book by the Holcombs is SO powerful and helpful. I would strongly recommend it to anyone.

      November 30, 2012 at 12:35 pm

  10. The ministry is all focused on how women and girls see themselves. I would love for you all to post the link if you would like to use it.

    August 9, 2013 at 10:26 am

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  15. LalahsCorner

    Hello, I love your compassion for younger women, this organization has helped me in some areas, thank your for being honest. I'm a blogger sharing my life as a christian and I believe that my testimony and stories that I share can help other young women. Please check out my blog at


    July 7, 2014 at 11:27 pm

  16. M

    Another excellent resource for anyone battling an eating disorder- or wanting to support someone who is battling one:

    August 3, 2014 at 3:58 am

  17. thanks for sharing

    November 29, 2014 at 9:29 pm

  18. Alex Williams

    I need help with forgiveness. I am having trouble trying to regain friendships with people who have hurt me, and who I have hurt. Any good, Godly books out there?

    December 17, 2014 at 1:41 pm

  19. It is interesting to note that we laugh at the people of science, we even go as far as calling them names like nerd for their different ways of appreciating life

    March 16, 2015 at 7:44 am

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